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right i can't but dat has become the title heading. but watever.

anyway, i was reading a blog out there, somewhere, and this person said something like i havent found my callin in life, wat i wanna be etc etc and the person said somethin like who wouldnt wanna do the things they love but this blogger also questioned dat how many ppl actually get to do the things they like?

sounds really familiar to most of us. and my last post was wat women/men really want. well, i know lots ppl are stuck with life. at least, stuck with wat they wanna do with their life.

in s'pore, time really flies, if u dun make the best of it, goodbye, you'd grow older than not and get sorta phased out. plus all dat stress and the belief in gettin a stable practical job, the lure of it all, is probably the biggest reason why we dun get to do the things we most love.

so i was wondering, am i even the least bit qualified to talk about doing something i love or encouraging ppl to go ahead and do wat they want to do in life?

i dunno, but one thing's for sure is dat i know wat i want in life and i love wat i am doin. so, well this is wat i did:

1. search deep within.
2. identify wat i cant live without.
3. be more specific, identify wat i wanna do for a lifetime and wat i'd enjoy doin aka passion.
4. set goals.
5. work towards achieving those goals.

yeah, so in busy s'pore can one find the time to do wat he loves? of cos. why not? even if one wants to make dat a lifetime pursuit go ahead. but with every choice comes consequence and sacrifice. to do wat u really wanna do in life, depending on the situation, can force u to give up alot. Are u willing to forsake those things? dat's the question :)

personally, i sacrificed alot of time with others, money, doing normal things dat 19 year olds should be doin.. like r/s and shit like dat, clubbing.. wat crap.. yeah basically those are things i gave up to focus on wat i love to do, wat i wanna do, wat i REALLY want :)

if it means alot to u, you'd give almost anything to be able to do it. it's like a self discovery thing. you gotta search deep within and i mean really deep. sometimes it takes long years.. hey i was only 19 when i realised wat i truly wanted from life, from my self.

after dat, set ur goals, work towards achieving wat u wanna do in life. dun just sit there waiting for a miracle to happen. miracles dun happen out of the blue, they are caused. u can talk about achieving something 10 years down the road but if u dun take action, 10 years later, you'd still be sitting there talkin about achieving something 10 years down the road.. for wat rite...

at the end of the day, it's not so much whether u reach the end, although dat is a bonus. i think the journey is more impt than wat not. so go pursue ur dreams, if it becomes reality dats a bonus! if not, the dream is always sweet :)